Are we living in paradise or hell ?

"We all live in paradise. However if we stay here for long we get bored." Paulo Cohelo Paradise and Hell are all perspective of mind. One might describe a places as paradise and the other can describe it to be hell. If we feel we might have been better off some place else then we are bound to fell hell about the surrent place. Sometiems its about the people if you can relate to them or maybe the place doesnt fell right. Simply i dont fit it.
However if you accept the fact that this is your only option then accepting might be easy. Mind plays various tricks on us. If only we could anticipate it.
Like love cannot be forced it just happens
Like rain cannot be made it just pours
Like flowers cannot be bloomed they just do
Similarly Paradise cannot be existing it is created
First in the mind and then elsewhere

Its no less than art or any theory of management or behavior or motivation. But living in paradise can become boring if i have to choose between both i would any day choose hell. Simple reason destruction.
Destruction of my void
Destruction of my ego
Destruction of my fate
Destruction of love
Destruction of desires
Destruction of expectaions
finally
Destruction of I
So accept the fact what is there the kick is how can i make it a hell for my dwelling ..

omar khayyam

A book, a woman, and a flask of wine:
The three make heaven for me; it may be thine
Is some sour place of singing cold and bare
But then, I never said thy heaven was mine.




There was the Door to which I found no Key;
There was the Veil through which I might not see:
Some little talk awhile of Me and Thee
There was — and then no more of Thee and Me.